Courage To Be Autonomous
It takes courage to be autonomous. Yes, I know we’re born with self-will. Just look at any toddler who “wants to do it herself”, and it’s evident.
But to strike out and do something I’ve never done takes courage. Actions that are simple for others may not be simple for me. And things that are easy for me may be difficult for others.
And each of us has talents that make us adept at certain things. Or life has helped us learn things others haven’t learned yet.
Courage To Let Go Of Autonomy
Then there’s a different kind of courage: When I realize I can’t do it on my own, and I have to ask for help.
It’s easy to let go of autonomy when I absolutely know I can’t do a task. Home or car repairs are on that list, among other things.
But letting go of autonomy can be difficult even when it’s necessary. There have been times when I was ill or injured. It was still difficult to ask for help. Perhaps I didn’t want to bother people or feared not getting the help I needed.
Courage To Be Truthful About Autonomy
I want to mention one more type of courage related to autonomy.
It takes courage to face the truth – about myself. But that’s the ultimate show of autonomy:
The courage to be truthful about whether I can do something myself, or if I need to ask for help.
Why? Because then I have to decide to act like an adult and either:
— Do the things I can do for myself, even if my selfish self doesn’t want to.
— Set aside my fears that someone else won’t do it my way, or will give help when I truly need it.
It takes courage to be autonomous — or not.
What gives you courage to be autonomous, or let go of it?
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I can see myself in parts of this message. With God’s help, I’ve gotten better over the years with the stubborn aspect. You’ve given me a different view of autonomy. Thank you for this thought provoking message.
Thanks, Katherine. I appreciate you reading and commenting on my post. I’m thankful it was helpful.
Learning my limits has helped me. Many times I find I can do really hard and heavy things when I put my mind to it and use available tools. Then there are the times the “thing” is just too big for me. In those instances I go looking for the best available help.
Thanks for reading and sharing, Jane. I appreciate your comments!
Thank you for the post, Joni.
Thanks, Tim. I hope it was helpful. I appreciate you reading and commenting.
Good post, Joni. Often, pride gets in our way, and pride’s one of the biggest obstacles to a fruitful and peaceful life.
Thank you for reading and commenting, Tim. I appreciate your insights.